【正見網2007年11月16日】
二零零七年十一月十三日 晴
從來沒有想到自己會對孩子產生如此大的影響,直到今天早上,先生對我說,他在電腦裡偶爾發現了兒子寫的一篇短文,是關於媽媽的。先生說他讀了之後很受感動。我問他都寫了什麼,他說,兒子把媽媽當做自己心目中的英雄。我聽著有點奇怪。我,一個平平常常的母親,每天忙忙碌碌、嘮嘮叨叨的,怎麼還成了他的英雄?況且,他正處在目中無人的青少年時期,一般這麼大的孩子是不把父母放在眼裡的。
當我讀兒子的短文時,一陣感動湧上心頭。從字裡行間看得出,他是以很認真的態度寫的,讓我吃驚的是,那些媽媽在日常生活中做的瑣碎小事,他都看到了,而且記在了心裡。事實上,我一直覺得自己做的不夠好,與法的要求,與師父的期望還差得相當遠呢。
原來在每天的生活中,孩子用純真的眼睛觀察著我們,用善良的心體察著我們,點點滴滴中,我們的一言一行都會對孩子產生著影響。做家長的自己做好,做正,就會對孩子產生好的影響,影響之大,影響之長遠,是我們難以估量的。家長們常為下一代的教育而發愁,現在看來並不難。
如果我這個修得不夠好的大法弟子已成了孩子心中的英雄,那麼,我只是千千萬萬個英雄中的一個,而培育這千千萬萬英雄的偉大導師正是我尊敬的師父―李洪志先生。是他用真善忍的法理打動了弟子們的心靈,使我們學會了如何為別人著想,變成一個真正有益於社會,有益於家庭的好人。
謝謝兒子的鼓勵,媽媽會更加努力,做的更好。
附兒子的短文:
我心目中的英雄
在我的生活中,有許多人對我很重要,然而媽媽是對我最重要的一位。她鼓勵著我,撫育著我,啟發著我,她,是我心目中的英雄。
媽媽有許多優秀的品質使她成為我心中的英雄。其中之一的是她強烈的責任感。她的東西都是非常整潔有序的,她做事是守時的。她從來沒有忘記過我們和牙醫的約定時間。她對於家裡要購買的東西都心中有數。她經常提醒我把重要的事標記在日曆上,早上要利用好鬧鐘。
媽媽睡得晚起得早,她在工作中也非常努力。每當我想起她這樣努力的工作,我便更加努力的學習。
另一個使媽媽成為我心中英雄的品質是她對於知識的渴求。她總喜歡學習新的東西。她的求知熱情也激勵著我學習更多的新知識。雖然她的英文不夠流暢,但她堅持如飢似渴的學習英文。
媽媽在壓力和緊急情況下還能做得很好。當我丟了什麼東西時會很緊張,相反,媽媽卻很平靜,她用邏輯思維幫我找到丟失的東西,比如我的眼鏡或者書包等物品。
或許媽媽最重要的品質是她的善良。每當爸爸、妹妹或我做錯什麼時,媽媽總是原諒我們。每當我成績不太好時,媽媽勸我不要擔心,下次考好就是了。我為媽媽的寬容而高興,她理解,每個人都會犯錯誤的。
媽媽善良聰明,有責任感。所有這些優秀品質,使得她成為我心目中的英雄。她激勵著我做好,成為更好的人。媽媽奇蹟般的改變了我對世界的認識。她既是我的媽媽,也是我心目中的英雄。
A Hero In My Heart
There are many important people in my life, but perhaps the most important one is my mother. She has encouraged me, taught me, and inspired me. She is my personal hero.
There are many admirable qualities that make my mom my hero. One of these qualities is being very responsible. All of her things are neat and organized and she is nearly always on time. She never forgets an appointment with the doctor, and wakes up early to do work. She keeps track of when we need to go get groceries and other things. She often encourages me to mark important dates on a calendar, and make good use of my alarm clock.
She sleeps late and wakes up early. She works very hard at her job. Whenever I think of her working so hard, I am inspired to work harder in school.
Another admirable quality that makes my mother my hero is her hunger to learn. She is always willing to learn new things. Her enthusiasm for learning inspires me to learn more and more new things. My mom is also very intelligent. Though she isn』t fluent in speaking English, she still strives to learn more and more about the English language.
My mom also works well under pressure. When I lose something, I usually panic. My mother, on the other hand, remains calm and thinks logically to help me find what I』m looking for, whether it’s my glasses, or my backpack.
Probably the most important quality that my mom possesses is kindness. Whenever I, my sister, or my dad does something badly or wrong, my mom will forgive and forget. I』m glad that my mom is forgiving and understands that everyone makes mistakes. When I get a bad grade, she tells me not to worry, and that I』ll do better the next time.
All of these qualities make my mom my personal hero. She has inspired me to do well academically and be a better person. She has dramatically changed my view of the world. She is kind, smart, and responsible. She is my mother, and she is my hero.
(English Translation: http://www.pureinsight.org/node/5081)